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| A SPECIAL MAN |
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| Arts journey thru life... |
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March 18, 1941- A beautiful baby boy was born in North Plainfield, New Jersey to the proud parents of John & Marion Polon
He was a loving brother to Marion, Helen, John Jr, Margorie, Catherine, Charles & Richard
1941- He was baptized Methodist has he got a little older as a young child he had almost as many curls as Shirley Temple pure white everyone called him "TOEHEAD"
During his teenage years he started dating Patricia Snedeker with whom he would marry on Feb 14, 1964
He attended North plainfield schools he Graduated from Lincoln Technical Institute with a degree in Heating and Air Conditioning. He really enjoyed worker as a heating contractor, alot of the days were tiring because our Dad worked very hard but all in all he still loved to work. He recieved many lettters thru the years from his customers telling him how such a great job he was doing and how they loved his work. We still have all of those letters to cherish.
Thru his life he worked many places as a heating contractor at: Exxon Boynton Laval McArthur McDowell Lella Oil Dungee Oil Slelton Coal & Feed he worked there for 17 years it was his last job he semi retired 3 months before he passed away, only working Mon,Tue & Fri.
December 7, 1959- sister Marion Schawiak passes away
February 14 1964- he married his lifetime sweetheart Pat whom through tough and happy times they pulled together with the strenghth in their marriage and were married 42 precious years. Until they are reunited in heaven someday
May 28, 1964- they had their first child a baby boy whom they named Artie Jr.
Jan 8, 1965- his father in law Joe Snedeker was killed in a car crash at the age of 42
Dec 7,1965- they had their sec baby which they never knew until almost the end that they were having twin girls whom they named Sue & Sharon
February 6, 1966- his Dad John Polon passed away
September 11, 1983- his mom Marion Polon passes away at the age of 81
April 30, 1985- brother Richard passes away at the age of 41
December 6,1986- Art was so proud, one of his children were getting married his daughter Sue he gave his blessings to a match made in heaven Sue was married to a great guy Rick Stamile
October 27,1990- became proud grandparents for the 1st time he was so proud to be called Poppop to his granddaughter Brittany Lynne Stamile
February 1991- granddaughter Brittany is Christened
January 29, 1992- brother John (Jack) passes away at the age of 67
February 29,1992- his uncle Bill passes away at the age of 90
May 22,1992- brother in law John Schafer passes away at the age of 72 husband to sister Helen
December 10, 1992- sister in law Gail passes away at the age of 52 wife to brother Charles
August 9, 1995- Became the proud grandparents for the 2nd time he was so proud to be called Poppop from his 2nd granddaughter Shannon Lisa Stamile
October 1995- granddaughter Shannon is Christened
January 29, 1999- brother in law Meredith Spottswood (Spottie) passes away at the age of 72 husband to sister Marge
May 1999- granddaughter Brittany makes her 1st Holy Communion
March 31, 2001- brother Charles passes away at the age 67
April 16, 2003- sister in law Olivia (Olive) passes away at the age of 75 wife to brother John (Jack)
May 2003- granddaughter Shannon makes her 1st Holy Communion
May 4, 2004- went to Atlantic City in a Limo for his mother-in-laws 80th Birthday we had a blast!!
June 28, 2005- sister Helen Schafer passes away at the age of 84
October 2005- his last gathering with alot of family was on his granddaughter Brittany's Confirmation He was so proud of her
May 6, 2006- went to Atlantic City with his wife ,children, son-in-law,mother-in-law and good friend Ollie for his mother-in-laws 82nd Birthday who would ever thought that that would have been the last time he went to Atlantic City. What a great time we all had pictures and the best of all video taped the whole ride up and back.
June 19, 2006- The day our lives were shattered forever!! We lost a great man who was a wonderful Husband, a loving Dad and a Devoted Poppop who loved his family, he would give you the shirt off his back, he would help anyone in need even if it cost him money. Our Dad has put his own money out and never ask for it back just because he wanted to do it thats the kind of man he was. HE WILL NEVER EVER BE FORGOTTEN NOT IN OUR EYES WE WILL REMEMBER HIM FOREVER
June 22,2006- Funeral services were Thursday for a great man family recieved condolences at Sheenans Funeral Home Dunellen NJ 2-4 pm 7-9 PM Officiants-Thomas Sheenen Catherine Lawrence
 June 23, 2006- services were Friday at 10 am at the Funeral Home followed by a Burial at Hillside Cemetery Scotchplains NJ

Pallbearers: Rick Stamile-Washington, NJ- son in law Chuck Polon- Marshalls Creek,Pa- Nephew Steven Spottswood- Piscataway,NJ- Nephew Johnny Schafer- Flemimgton, NJ- Nephew Doug Bovino- Hillsboro, NJ- Nephew Jimmy Trotter- Leola, Pa- Nephew in law (niece Marie's husband)
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| AN ANGEL TO WATCH OVER OUR DEAR LOVED ONE.. ART~DAD~POPPOP |
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| YOU ARE THE TWINKLE IN THE STARS ABOVE |
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| GONE AWAY WITH THE ANGELS |
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| YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE SKY!!! |
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| ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS!!! |
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 "Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure...loved beyond words and missed beyond measure"
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| Heaven. |
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| Hail Mary!!! |
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| OUR HEART OF THE FAMILY |
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| Love is... |
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| WE MISS YOU |
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| Our Final Goodbye!! |
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| Good- bye to our special angel |
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| Dad at the Pearly Gates |
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| OUR DAD HAS BECOME AN ANGEL!!! |
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 He spent his last day with his family on Father's Day June 18, 2006. He passed away suddenly at home in his sleep on the morning of June 19, 2006 at the age of 65.
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| HEAVEN'S NEWEST ANGEL !! MAY YOU FIND PEACE!!! |
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| With loving memories left behind |
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 He is survived by his loving wife of 42 years Pat, his precious children, son Artie Jr, daughters Sharon & Sue, darling granddaughters Brittany & Shannon, loving son-in-law Rick, loving mother-in-law Alice, two dear sisters Marge & Catherine, dear brother-in-laws Richi & Joe and sisiter-in-law Peggy. Lots of nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews and friends. He will be very sadly missed.
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| MEMORIES LAST FOREVER!! |
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 I LOVE YOU ART!! WE LOVE YOU DAD!! WE LOVE YOU POPPOP!! WE LOVE YOU ART!! Death leaves a heartache noone can heal. Love leaves a memory noone can steal. We have so many memories of all the fun times we have had through the years .You will never be forgotten.We miss you so very much!!!
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| A tribute to a special Husband~Dad~Poppop |
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Here is our tribute for the first year without him. Our days and nights feel so strange with you not being here to talk to and laugh with, we miss you so much we should have had some more great years with you, for you to leave us so suddenly there are no words to describe the feeling. We can not except the fact you are gone and probably never will.
YOUR LOVING WIFE~PAT SON~ARTIE DAUGHTERS~SHARON & SUE SON-N-LAW~RICK GRANDDAUGHTERS~BRITTANY & SHANNON

ART~DAD~POPPOP HAPPY 4TH OF JULY IN HEAVEN WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU SITTING OR LOOKING OUTSIDE WHEN EVERYONE WAS SHOOTING OFF FIREWORKS, YOU HAD YOUR SHARE WITH THE FAMILY OVER THE YEARS DO WE MISS THOSE DAYS.WHEN THE SKY LIGHTS UP WITH FIREWORKS WE WILL THINK OF YOU AND KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING US.WE MISS & LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

 


 Everyone got dressed in costumes for Granddaughter Brittany's Birthday Oct 2005. It was a super fun day. We were put in groups of 3 and danced to music to match the costumes. Dad danced with his son-in-law Rick and Rick's brother Vinny, they danced to the music of Kiss "Let's Rock-n-Roll all night long". We have it all on video what a treasured memory.



 My First Christmas in Heaven I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below. With tiny lights, like heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow. The sight is so spectacular! Please wipe away that tear, for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear, but the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here. I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring, for it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart, but I am not so far away, we really aren't apart. So be happy for me dear ones. You know I hold you dear and be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I send you each a special gift from my heavenly home above. I send you each a memory of my undying love. After all "LOVE" is the gift, more precious than pure gold. It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do, for I can't count the blessings or love He has for you.
So, have a Joyous Christmas and wipe away that tear. Remember, I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.


 
 
 MERRY CHRISTMAS DAD. YOU MAY NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH YOU ARE MISSED. WE CAN NOT TRULY EXPRESS OUR LOSS FOR YOU. THERE ARE NO WORDS TO SAY IT. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISSING YOU IS NOT WHAT WE EXPECTED TO DO ON CHRISTMAS DAY . THE DAY IS SO LONELY WITHOUT YOU. ALL WE HAVE IS THOSE MEMORIES OF CHRISTMAS PAST. WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOU TO CELEBRATE THIS JOYOUS OCCASION. ALL WE HAVE IS TREASURED MEMORIES. MOMMY IS LOST WITHOUT YOU ON ANY DAY. WE TRY TO HELP HER THRU IT. SHE MISSES YOU BEYOND WORDS.
Love, Artie,Sharon Rick & Sue

Dad - Poppop MERRY CHRISTMAS WE MISS YOU!! WE LOVE YOU!! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN ON THIS SAD CHRISTMAS MORNING 12/25/06
 12/25/06 TO MY DEAREST HUSBAND ON THIS LONELY CHRISTMAS DAY I MISS YOU MORE & MORE AS THE DAYS GO BY. I WISH YOU WERE HERE SO I COULD GIVE YOU A GREAT BIG HUG. I WILL NEVER EVER FORGET YOU YOU LIVE IN MY HEART EVERYDAY. I MISS YOU SO MUCH YOUR LOVING WIFE PAT


ART DAD POPPOP
WISHING YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR IN HEAVEN. WE HAVE TO REMEMBER LAST YEARS NEW YEAR AND TRY TO BRING THAT JOY TO US FOR THIS YEAR. WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOSE TREASURED MEMORIES OF THAT YEAR. WE MISS AND LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH! NEW YEARS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU HERE WITH US TO CELEBRATE WITH US WE WILL ALWAYS THINK OF THAT GLASS OF WINE. SO HERE IS ONE FOR YOU DAD. A TOAST TO ALL THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER WE LOVE YOU FOREVER.
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 My Dearest Husband Art There is one thing I am going to do that is to spend my whole life loving you. Happy Valentine's Day Hon, Your Loving Wife Pat

















 Happy Valentines Day to you Precious Dad We just wish we could give a great BIG hug. You can never know how much we miss you. Every minute of the day we think of you. Your smile is the first thing we see in our minds when we wake up and the last thing we see when we go to sleep. Sleep peacefully our precious Dad. We love you always!! Love you forever!!! Artie, Sharon, Sue & Rick



 Happy Valentine's Day to you Dear Poppop whom we miss and love so very much! Its not the same without you here with us, to watch us do the things that we do. We know you keep close to us but we still want to give you a big hug too. You will never be forgotten Everyday we think of you. Please guide us Poppop thru our school years and forever Love you forever Brittany & Shannon





 Dear Art Dad & Poppop We are wishing you a Happy St Patricks Day in heaven we will always remember how much you loved cornbeef, cabbage, potatoes and carrots on this day. Today will not be the same to eat this wonderful meal with you. The food will taste bland. We miss you so much Love you forever. 3/17/07


















 Happy Birthday Art Dad Poppop Today is a very sad day, you should be here celebrating your Birthday. We went to the grave had your favorite Dunkin Donuts, said a prayer for you, released balloons to you in memory of your special day. This day will always be yours, we will make sure it is always remembered in a special way for you. We miss and love you so much. Here is a Birthday cake for you and a cup of coffee. Enjoy Dad!!
All our love, Pat,Artie,Sharon, Rick,Sue,Brittany & Shannon
 




















 Here is our gifts to you, a lucky crossword,a lucky lottery book, box of hugs & kisses and you always said your ship was coming in well here it is hope you take a long cruise to anywhere you want to go. WE LOVE WE MISS YOU SO MUCH ART~DAD~POPPOP
  

Have a blast you deserve it!!
 A Birthday Rememberance in our local newspaper for a special Husband, Dad & Poppop We miss & love you so much!!

























































Dear Art Dad & Poppop Happy Memorial Day 5/28/07 You may have never served in a war or had a rank in the service but to us you were our HERO. You always protected us and made us feel safe, so today we honor all those who have served in a war and even got wounded or killed, but we also honor you Dad as our fallen Hero, you will always be remembered and never forgotten. Here is our medal to you. We love and miss you so much.
Love, Pat,Artie,Sharon, Sue,Rick,Brittany & Shannon
  



HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO A LOVING DAD! There are no words to say how much we appreciate all you have done for us. We can thank you a million times over. How do we have a Father's Day without our guest of honor YOU~DAD We will always remember and treasure the last Father's Day we spent with you never knowing that it would be our last! The morning after the angels came and took our loving Dad away to the heavens above. We miss & love you so much, you will never be forgotten! Forever in our hearts loving you always Artie,Sharon Sue & Rick
 Happy Father's Day to our precious Poppop! You will always be in our hearts forever we will always remember how you made us laugh & smile We miss you so much! Love, Brittany & Shannon
 Happy Father's Day to a wonderful Husband! You made me so proud to be your loving wife for 42 years. You were such a hard worker for many years. Your hard work will NEVER go unnoticed. I will never forget you! I love you always love, pat














 Dad Many poems have been written to explain How a mother's love can soothe the pain. But little has been said about a Father's concern So now I think it must be his turn. A Father's love for his off-spring Is just like that of a solid gold ring. No matter what, it is unending, Never breaking though sometimes bending. His love is as strong as a mother's although Due to his personality it sometimes doesn't show. There is no question of how strong or of its lasting however long. So no matter if his child is good or bad, There is no Love stronger than that of a Dad.


 A Father Is . . . A father is a source of strength A teacher and a guide The one his family looks up to With loving trust and pride A father is a helper With a willing hand to lend A partner, an adviser And the finest kind of friend























  




 Dad Here is our gift to you for Father's Day 3 new stratch-offs that came out on 4/23/07 can you believe it in all the years the lottery has been here there has never been a stratch-off like these. I know its hard to imagine one being of the "DUKE" himself, who you were so good at impersonating, how ironic to almost the year of your angel anniversary that such a stratch-off even existed. Was it you Dad who brought them to us to let us know you are ok? We will always think of you in many ways during our lives. We miss & love you so much.
Love, Artie Sharon, Sue & Rick
  
 A Father's Day tribute in our local newspaper for a very special Dad~Poppop

 A years angelversary is June 19,2007 when our lives were shattered forever The loss of a Dear Husband, Loving Dad and a Precious Poppop. A man with a heart that was pure as gold,who was always there for us whenever we needed him. We want the world to know that we have lost a warmhearted man who was and still is very special to us The tears still flow as if it were that horrible day. We miss & love you!! LOVE, Pat,Artie,Sharon Sue & Rick Brittany & Shannon















 Our Tribute in the local newspaper for a wonderful Husband~Dad~Poppop



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| EVENTS THAT HAPPENED AFTER YOUR PASSING |
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July 19, 2006- Uncle Joe went into the hospital in a diabetic coma he didnt even know he was a diabetic he never told anyone.
Aug 9 2006- Shannon turned 12 she knew you were by herside on this special day
October 27 2006- Brittany turned "Sweet Sixteen" you knew she was going to have a limo for her birthday she knew you were keeping her and all her friends safe in the limo which they went to dinner, a movie and a wonderful country ride.
February 14, 2007- A day of rememberance for your 43rd anniversary with mom
June 2007- Briittany & Shannon had a recital and dedicated their dances to you with love and put a tribiute to you in the program.
October 6 2007- Your beloved sister Marge lost her battle with cancer and passed away, we were at her home to see her a couple of days before she passed, she knew she was going to see you and the rest of her family in heaven.
February 14, 2008- A day of rememberance for your 44th anniversary with mom
May 17 2008- Brittany & Shannon danced for a MS Benefit and dedicated this years dances to you with a tribute in the program
June 22. 2008- Granddaughters Brittany & Shannon danced at Disney World, we were on vacation from 6/22/08- 7/7/08 I know you were watching from above and smiling down on them. They miss you so much!!
July 9 2008- Chuck was in a car accident coming home from his morning route a car pulled right in front of him and totaled his car, he broken his wrist and four broken ribs.
July 13, 2008 - Yankee great Bobby Murser passed away from brain cancer
July 17, 2008 - Ricky and his wife Grace came up from SC to see us after 18 years, Dad you would have been so happy to see your nephew. I think it was you and aunt Sally that broght us together.
July 19, 2008- Today is 25 months since you left us and Ricky paid his respects to you at your new home we took pictures.
Sept 6, 2008- Granddaughter Shannon got her hair cut after 6 years and donated 12 inches of her hair to Locks of Love, you would be so proud of her Dad.
October 3, 2008- Barbara Riche( niece) passed away at the young age of 46 we all saw her at the hospital the night before, she was in a coma. Please keep her boys safe and give them and her family the strength in the years ahead. She was a great mom, daughter, sister, aunt, cousin and friend!!
February 14, 2009- A day of rememberance for your 45th anniversary with mom
June 2009- Brittany and Shannon danced in memory of you Dad in their recital it being Brittamy's last one you would have been so proud of her she danced like a butterfly across the stage. Brittany & Shannon danced a duet you were in their hearts as the danced and are with them everyday!!
June 2009- Brittany graduated High School she looked so beautiful she will always have you in her heart as she goes to college, she always tells me how you always told her to do well and to graduate as that was something you did not do as you had to go to work at a young age you would be proud of her she has you by her side everyday!! |
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